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	<title>Comments on: Don&#8217;t Go to Work With The Wrong Breasts</title>
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		<title>By: Sara</title>
		<link>http://thecurvature.com/2007/06/05/dont-go-to-work-with-the-wrong-breasts/#comment-737</link>
		<dc:creator>Sara</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 04 Jul 2007 01:47:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I suffered much anger and embarassment the other day when two female co-workers came to me and told me that my cleavage was highly inappropriate and I needed to pull up my shirt immediately. I have recently gained about a cup size due to birth control pills, and I am getting used to this development, as are my clothes. However, my shirt barely showed any cleavage at all. Furthurmore, the next day (while wearing a very, very modest shirt in embarassment) one of the same co-workers came to me and tried to give me tips on bending in front of a mirror to be absolutely sure that I am not showing any cleavage. First, so what? I am not being unprofessional in the least and this has never been an issue before. Second, I am 20! Do not come to me thinking you can lecture me about my body.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I suffered much anger and embarassment the other day when two female co-workers came to me and told me that my cleavage was highly inappropriate and I needed to pull up my shirt immediately. I have recently gained about a cup size due to birth control pills, and I am getting used to this development, as are my clothes. However, my shirt barely showed any cleavage at all. Furthurmore, the next day (while wearing a very, very modest shirt in embarassment) one of the same co-workers came to me and tried to give me tips on bending in front of a mirror to be absolutely sure that I am not showing any cleavage. First, so what? I am not being unprofessional in the least and this has never been an issue before. Second, I am 20! Do not come to me thinking you can lecture me about my body.</p>
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		<title>By: Lya Kahlo</title>
		<link>http://thecurvature.com/2007/06/05/dont-go-to-work-with-the-wrong-breasts/#comment-344</link>
		<dc:creator>Lya Kahlo</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 06 Jun 2007 14:02:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;The idiocy involved in the article seemed so obvious to me, that I didn&#039;t even consider that they might think it was intelligent and reasonable. &quot;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;It&#039;s a scary thought.  Imo, it&#039;s like being the one-eyed person in the land of the blind.  I can see, and therefore it&#039;s easy to forget that not everyone can.  Worse - most people can&#039;t, I think. &lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;I&#039;d be willing to bet that whoever wrote the piece thought it was a totally reasonable and logical article to write because everyone just accepts that it&#039;s a man&#039;s world, men are the standard and therefore everyone must do whatever men find acceptable if they are to be taken seriously. &lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;The message is clear -  It&#039;s not the patriarchical bullshit aatmosphere that needs to change (it is, in fact, never even acknowledged) - it&#039;s women.  It&#039;s always women&#039;s responsibility to make life comfy for men.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;The idiocy involved in the article seemed so obvious to me, that I didn&#8217;t even consider that they might think it was intelligent and reasonable. &#8220;</p>
<p>It&#8217;s a scary thought.  Imo, it&#8217;s like being the one-eyed person in the land of the blind.  I can see, and therefore it&#8217;s easy to forget that not everyone can.  Worse &#8211; most people can&#8217;t, I think. </p>
<p>I&#8217;d be willing to bet that whoever wrote the piece thought it was a totally reasonable and logical article to write because everyone just accepts that it&#8217;s a man&#8217;s world, men are the standard and therefore everyone must do whatever men find acceptable if they are to be taken seriously. </p>
<p>The message is clear &#8211;  It&#8217;s not the patriarchical bullshit aatmosphere that needs to change (it is, in fact, never even acknowledged) &#8211; it&#8217;s women.  It&#8217;s always women&#8217;s responsibility to make life comfy for men.</p>
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		<title>By: Roy</title>
		<link>http://thecurvature.com/2007/06/05/dont-go-to-work-with-the-wrong-breasts/#comment-343</link>
		<dc:creator>Roy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 06 Jun 2007 13:11:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Gods... I bet you&#039;re right Lya Kahlo. I hadn&#039;t even considered that option. The idiocy involved in the article seemed so &lt;i&gt;obvious&lt;/i&gt; to me, that I didn&#039;t even consider that &lt;i&gt;they&lt;/i&gt; might think it was intelligent and reasonable. &lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Ugh.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Gods&#8230; I bet you&#8217;re right Lya Kahlo. I hadn&#8217;t even considered that option. The idiocy involved in the article seemed so <i>obvious</i> to me, that I didn&#8217;t even consider that <i>they</i> might think it was intelligent and reasonable. </p>
<p>Ugh.</p>
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		<title>By: Lya Kahlo</title>
		<link>http://thecurvature.com/2007/06/05/dont-go-to-work-with-the-wrong-breasts/#comment-342</link>
		<dc:creator>Lya Kahlo</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 06 Jun 2007 11:31:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;I love that they don&#039;t even pretend to care about being fair minded or intelligent about this,&quot;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;I think it&#039;s much much worse than that. I think they fully believed they were being fair minded and intelligent. They&#039;re to oblivious to know how sexist and idiotic this article is. For ABC, it&#039;s simple - everyone know&#039;s this is a man&#039;s world and so women wishing to succeed in it must be informed as to what pleases their masters.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;I love that they don&#8217;t even pretend to care about being fair minded or intelligent about this,&#8221;</p>
<p>I think it&#8217;s much much worse than that. I think they fully believed they were being fair minded and intelligent. They&#8217;re to oblivious to know how sexist and idiotic this article is. For ABC, it&#8217;s simple &#8211; everyone know&#8217;s this is a man&#8217;s world and so women wishing to succeed in it must be informed as to what pleases their masters.</p>
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		<title>By: James</title>
		<link>http://thecurvature.com/2007/06/05/dont-go-to-work-with-the-wrong-breasts/#comment-341</link>
		<dc:creator>James</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 06 Jun 2007 03:39:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I find myself distressed by the idea that because men find women sexually attractive in the workplace that women ought to be the ones to solve that problem. No, a man who finds himself going beyond the bounds of professionalism should stop acting like its somehow not his problem and exercise a little fucking self control.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I find myself distressed by the idea that because men find women sexually attractive in the workplace that women ought to be the ones to solve that problem. No, a man who finds himself going beyond the bounds of professionalism should stop acting like its somehow not his problem and exercise a little fucking self control.</p>
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		<title>By: Cara</title>
		<link>http://thecurvature.com/2007/06/05/dont-go-to-work-with-the-wrong-breasts/#comment-340</link>
		<dc:creator>Cara</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 06 Jun 2007 00:12:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I didn&#039;t save my message.  It was longer, and maybe ranting.  I managed to not curse them out, though.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I didn&#8217;t save my message.  It was longer, and maybe ranting.  I managed to not curse them out, though.</p>
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		<title>By: mary</title>
		<link>http://thecurvature.com/2007/06/05/dont-go-to-work-with-the-wrong-breasts/#comment-339</link>
		<dc:creator>mary</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 06 Jun 2007 00:05:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>that&#039;s great, dewey!  my comment was a bit more tame, but:&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&quot;What kind of message are you sending with your article on women&#039;s breasts in the workplace?  The suggestion that women should pad or minimize their breasts in order to achieve a &quot;professional&quot; appearance as judged by the corporate world sends entirely the WRONG message: that it is women&#039;s bodies, and not the sexist values of the work world, that are in need of reform.&quot;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>that&#8217;s great, dewey!  my comment was a bit more tame, but:</p>
<p>&#8220;What kind of message are you sending with your article on women&#8217;s breasts in the workplace?  The suggestion that women should pad or minimize their breasts in order to achieve a &#8220;professional&#8221; appearance as judged by the corporate world sends entirely the WRONG message: that it is women&#8217;s bodies, and not the sexist values of the work world, that are in need of reform.&#8221;</p>
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		<title>By: Cara</title>
		<link>http://thecurvature.com/2007/06/05/dont-go-to-work-with-the-wrong-breasts/#comment-338</link>
		<dc:creator>Cara</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 05 Jun 2007 22:25:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Haha! Rock on, Dew.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Seriously, ABC is officially On Notice.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Haha! Rock on, Dew.</p>
<p>Seriously, ABC is officially On Notice.</p>
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		<title>By: Dewey</title>
		<link>http://thecurvature.com/2007/06/05/dont-go-to-work-with-the-wrong-breasts/#comment-337</link>
		<dc:creator>Dewey</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 05 Jun 2007 22:20:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I chose &quot;suggestions for new content&quot; and wrote this:&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;My suggestion for new content is ANYTHING THAT IS NOT SEXIST BULLSHIT. Are you serious? &quot;How to show off breasts best in the office?&quot; I&#039;m going to show off my skill and expertise in the office, thanks. &lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Who cares what size breasts are &quot;best perceived by men in the office?&quot; Don&#039;t we have enough sexual harrassment already? Men in my office who want to perceive my breasts can just take themselves straight to court. I&#039;ll meet them there.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I chose &#8220;suggestions for new content&#8221; and wrote this:</p>
<p>My suggestion for new content is ANYTHING THAT IS NOT SEXIST BULLSHIT. Are you serious? &#8220;How to show off breasts best in the office?&#8221; I&#8217;m going to show off my skill and expertise in the office, thanks. </p>
<p>Who cares what size breasts are &#8220;best perceived by men in the office?&#8221; Don&#8217;t we have enough sexual harrassment already? Men in my office who want to perceive my breasts can just take themselves straight to court. I&#8217;ll meet them there.</p>
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		<title>By: Dewey</title>
		<link>http://thecurvature.com/2007/06/05/dont-go-to-work-with-the-wrong-breasts/#comment-336</link>
		<dc:creator>Dewey</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 05 Jun 2007 22:16:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh, I do indeed want to tell off ABC,thanks. &lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Nice how they didn&#039;t even show any WOMEN the boobs. I mean, who cares what WOMEN think looks more professional. &lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Oh, Roy said that.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh, I do indeed want to tell off ABC,thanks. </p>
<p>Nice how they didn&#8217;t even show any WOMEN the boobs. I mean, who cares what WOMEN think looks more professional. </p>
<p>Oh, Roy said that.</p>
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